Stop in for a cup of coffee

I heard somewhere that the Moderna and Pfizer supposedly had similar numbers on reactions. Yet I haven't heard first hand of anyone having a bad one to Pfizer and many for Moderna. Wifes older sis in Florida had Moderna and felt like she had the flu next day.
The part that worries me on the Pfizer is the one side effect. They have yet to confirm it yet, but what the health department and coroner told us when my grandfather died of a ruptured GI bleed in April, is that they had seen similar cases in patients with the Pfizer. Which my grandfather got 6 days before passing...