Morning!
Mother is getting an assessment for assisted living. She doesent want to move. A couple weeks ago,had a fall in the front yard and couldnt get up. Right then she was thinking maybe she should go to a retirement home. Changed her mind.
mother in law, wont let home care in, hasnt showered in months. Barely eating and doesent want anybody in her apt.
Wife’s cousin finally got in, helped her with a shower,cleaned apartment and made her a nice meal. My wife is the only sibling left,has power of attourney and we just found out about whats going on.
My wife is having a hard time dealing with this. And i have no say in what should be done.
If we could move her to manitoba, that would be best for everyone. Put both mothers in the same care home. Guaranteed regular visits.