Serious 904 oil pan leak help

Hi All, Need all the help i can get!
have 2 young boys makes it difficult to spend countless hours taking this apart and mindless trouble shooting.

Opting for solutions and advice from the A Body Mopar Fam
I am about to change oil pan gasket for the 3rd time.........BUT seeing as that wont be the only solution required.

THE LIST OF PROBLEMS
1.The Oil pan leaks
2. The trans level will no go in park, fires up in Neutral to drive.
3. Reverse pulls really hard with no gas given.
4. Transmission oil appears to be coming from up top of the shift level.

Help.
thanks all -Jeff

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Ditch the stamped pan and get a new cast aluminum pan use a pan gasket with steel washers embossed in the gasket at the bolt holes apply the bolts with a torque wrench.