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Silicone and too much torque. (could have been after it started leaking.) Silicone seems to soften and break down cork/rubber. I rarely had transmission pan leaks. I made sure they were straight and tightened the bolts down with a short handled 1/4" drive ratchet. (and no silicone)
Mopar still makes a leak proof trans gasket for 904. The dealers stock them. For a Dakota...