Bigboy68 update
I am no longer on disability I am working a full-time job a minimum wage job but I am working a full-time job and I get a paycheck every two weeks
said Bigboy68
So then Bigboy68, all you need to do is stop buying parts for two weeks, so that you can have your funds in pocket to pay for parts as you purchase the parts and not expect the seller to wait for you to get paid so the seller can get paid.
Sellers should get paid or get evidence that they will get paid within hours of the deal being made. For buyers that do not use electronic cash transfers like pay pal, the buyer can still provide evidence of payment plans by: taking a photograph of the completed postal MO and the addressed and stamped envelope and e mailing those to the seller or posting the photos in the for sale thread. If I had that from you I would mark the item sold and hold it for you. Until I see the money the part remains for sale. Providing a photo of the completed MO and the addressed mailing envelope can be done within hours of the deal closing, If you are not in a position to do that, then don't buy the part. The seller should then receive payment with in a maximum of a week, for me that would be acceptable. Waiting two weeks or more for payment is not acceptable.
So Bigboy68 the ball is in your court
1) don't buy what you don't have the money in your pocket to buy
2) if you choose to not use an electronic fund transfer, as soon as the deal is closed, provide evidence that you are sending the payment amount in full, then stay in contact with the seller until your payment is received by the seller.
That is what a responsible buyer does.