I had a stalling issue with my 96 Dakota. Same MO, stall at a light, pop in neutral and starts back up. Thought it might be a fuel pump and did a pressure test ok when it was running. Couldn't get it to stall with the gauge on it. :BangHead::BangHead: After a few days of it I started wiggling harnesses. 3 going into the ecm under the hood would make the engine miss. I tapped the ecm with a screwdriver handle and it killed the engine. Installed a new (reman) and no issues since. I got lucky for sure.