Me as well. However what I see with my 89 year old father in law is loneliness. Wife passed 20 years ago kids moved out 30 years ago. Now he can’t drive lives 6 miles from us 5 miles from town. Stubborn old f... lives in that house by himself. We go there as much as we can but we have lives too. He talks about his friends who live in the “home” who's friends with who and such you can hear he’s envious of them