WE ARE A GENERATION THAT WILL NEVER COME BACK.

You pepper his *** then he gets up and kills you and your wife, maybe the kids. Or, he just comes back when you are asleep. No thanks.
Getting hit by buck shot or bird shot is stunningly painful. I don't know of many "home defense" shotguns that are single shot. One shot to the face and the guy would be blind and in agony. One shot to the groin would be devastating!! I wouldn't use a shotgun but that's just me.