You can’t trust thermostat ratings

Here we go...the engineer has spoken..:rolleyes:
No one EVER said to restrict the radiator...

If a pot of water 'small controlled area of consistant/controlled temperature' isn't a good testing ground... then it must be because you aren't the one testing it? Bullshit. You can believe that all you want.
You're doing something wrong, engineer.
A quick google would find many hobbyists claiming that adding a restrictor in the coolant path can solve an overheating problem. That has been claimed vehemently here too many times. Google further and you might find the writeup by a Robertshaw engineer who apparently found the source of this false idea. It was a solution for early flat-head V-8's which would burp coolant out the radiator due to excessive water pump pressure, which was problematic, but a different problem. The easiest counter to this absurd claim is to ask the genius if perhaps the T-stat should then be designed to close more as coolant temperature rises.

No idea what you are fussing about re the hot pot of water tests. For everything I state, it is not my word to trust, but the words in multiple engineering textbooks. I suggest you read them, then report back to us, or write a letter to the author telling him why his Physics is wrong.