Installed height has to do with the distance from the bottom of the valve spring retainer and the top of the valve spring seat with the valve closed. That has little to do with over all valve length, as depending upon the valve, the keeper groove can be a different heights on the same length valve. And different length valves can give you the same installed heights by cutting spring seats or installing shims under the springs.
It always amazes me how some let their machine shop pick out and install parts and the person having the engine built don’t know what they are. Do you know who made the valves and have a part number?