I guess, right now I really don't care. I have a brother who's dying from cancer so I may not be thinking so clear and I never claimed to be perfect. Seems like a lot of guys here think that everything is funny.
i feel for you and your brother, i lost my dad to that horrible disease a while back and my step mum's recently been given 1-2 years left too.
nobody here is making fun, i guess we all just try to keep a positive, glass half full attitude is all. there's always someone out there that's worse off than you or me. regards, neil.