Don't do this to your children

About 5 years ago i suggested to my mom to start purging. Give away or sell whats not important. She did very well.
89 years old in may, and in hospital after a fall. Waiting for personal care now. Dimentia is taking hold now. I agree its not easy. Worst part is, one sibling has some effed up agenda and is causing problems. Mom had the sense 5 years ago to re-assign the power of attourney and executor. Sadly, its me and my wife left to deal with this. Top of the list is to make sure mom is comfortable.