Oh mine totally understands how difficult at times it is to live with her daughter :rolleyes:
When I go to her place she always has a little one or two projects for me to do. Gee her son lives less than a mile away but he's busy.
I had Cheryl call him one winter day and told him to go shovel their Mom's driveway with his two teenage sons...don't make us drive 70 miles to do it because we will. He took care of it.
His wife isn't much better such an effort to go do something for Mom.
That's ok she cut the DIL out of her will. Put all the BIL inheritance in a trust with a conservator.
She wrote it so that if the BIL goes first all his trust goes to the local university as a donation...ouch!!
Me I'm ok and she's told me so. I told her I'm set so spend it all!!