My Mom had a little money and a small house when she passed. Total after taxes was 200k. I was gone deployed my sister and brother convinced her in a fragile frame of mind that I'd left, would blow any money I got, wouldn't take care of my kids, on and on. I didn't know it until the lawyer gave us copies of the will. After a few choice words I told them I'd never talk to them again and haven't been 14 years. Life is too short and family is only blood thick sometimes.