I agree. 99% of us would have a great time together and enjoy the day. The hardest part of the internet is reading text often taken the wrong way. When reading the text, most insert a feeling, attitude, etc… that’s not me t by the poster. Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn’t. But you don’t always know for sure.
With some people, you can trade despicable insulting barbs and laugh it off as play time while other freak out over your choice of spark plugs.
The worst is misreading followed by assumption.