My wife HATES my car.
My wife hates my car too. She is a painfully practical person and just doesn't see the need for it. We are so opposite in so many ways. I always make sure my family is taken care of way better than we ever were, but she still can't get past it. I finally just told her that she doesn't have to like it but if she wants to stay together she has to live with it. My car hobby is what keeps me sane when things get shitty. She may be coming around a bit since it's mostly finished now and she thinks it will start to cost less. Maybe she doesn't realize I am serious about starting another car once my son's truck is done.
Point is, marriage has to be a give and take deal, I give way more than I take so that's going to have to be enough. Or not!
Cley