56 Packard terminals 14-16ga.

That was my opinion too, that the ones I bought appear to be too thick. The PICO is rated for 14-18?? I've never seen a connector rated for 3 wire sizes? So I ordered the Grote rated for 14-16. Same shitty result. 58s I've only ever seen are females? I think the 56 are males only?
I've only seen the male terminals sold as 56 series.
Those look like they are made from thicker material than some of the females shown above.
You'll have to experiment to figure out which crimp position and tool works for the heavier gage metal.
There's others here who know much more about crimping than me.
Maybe talk to Mr Heater Box, or Bill Evans, or the people at M&H.