Hard to tell in the video, did you set the TOB free play to 0.010" to 0.015" free play, or whatever the spec is? It looks like the TOB is always in contact with the fingers in that video.
Yes, I set the air gap to spec per the instructions. I just got off the phone with Eastside motorsports, the company who makes these TOB kits. He said the air gap spec is only for initial install, to prevent the bearing from being over extended. Once the pedal has been pushed the first time, it will always ride on the fingers and self adjust going forward.
Based on that it all makes sense to me. He said as long as I have full engagement of the clutch I am all set (which i do) I have no trouble shifting gears. What I do find interesting is that he said to remove the big spring on the pedal, it was only used for mechanical return. Even tho I have a 3 finger clutch.