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So with your warped logic, he cannot that be that disabled....because it was only a car accident.
Nope, that's not what I'm saying.
That's you reading my post, rolling it around with the marbles in your head and blurting out some nonsense.

It's simply a matter of perspective.
Your "giving this bloke a break" comment does nothing but condemn him to his disability, without hope, because trying to do anything more than he's doing now would be beyond his capabilities.
I, on the other hand believe that's not the case, I believe better life outcomes are within anyone's reach, if they are willing to try.