I'm a biker. I've been faced with this so called problem of leaving my stuff behind for my whole life.I could get squashed like a bug on a windshield at any point.Been riding 57 years and if I worried about leaving my stuff behind for someone else to deal with I would never have had the chance to own and enjoy what I have.The way I see it is you die,the day after the funeral your **** gets auctioned off and what's left goes to the scrap yard. That's not such a great burden to leave behind . Keeping your stuff and working on it right up to the end will give you a better quality of life no matter how hard it is .This is how I see it anyway .If I go first she gets to deal with it If she goes first I get to deal with her **** .It's an auction and college junk removal either way