318 Oil pan gasket fitment issue / MAHLE OS30520YTC Cork with Metal Carrier

so i was looking online in how to properly install a oil pan gasket on my 318. I notice there are two styles : one with multiple holes and one without the holes on the bottom of the oil pan. I got the one without the holding holes. I think its also a mildon performance pan forgot part number

I seen some people
-cut the cork gasket so it doesn't interfere with the rubber wing
-some cut the wind off and add alot of RTV
-some people slid the cork gasket under the rubber wing
-others lay the gasket on top of the rubber wing

I dont see any other way other than cutting the metal cork gasket a bit so i can have it seated flat onto the pan because i cant slide it under the wing as seen in pictures cause the gasket is long and pushes the rubber wing out

I was thinking as well to try to lay it on top of the rubber gasket and pressurized it close with the oil pan bolts - which i dont like that idea as seen in pictures of me holding gasket down with my thumb - you can see a gap in between which is guarantee to leak . what would you guys suggest - I just want to install it right once and not worry about leaks