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Bodyperson said

I think it has a lot to do with dependence too. I'm always trying to get my wife to be more independent.

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My FIL always took care of the finances and the MIL has not a clue how to pay bills or the legal part so has been a real chore in getting things figured out. So to your comment on trying to make the wife independent is a Yea I can understand that.