Wife / Girlfriend rage

I just got divorced. I definitely still love my ex but when I quit getting pissed off, she started getting pissed off so I knew something was up.

Sure enough, caught her pouring perfume that I hated (allergic reaction, actually) on the carpet, doing stuff like that.

And it's amazing. Since she's been gone, no more mystery stains on the carpet ("that's always been there, since we moved in" uh yeah, no.)
No more mystery dents in the sheetrock. (Also always been there)
No more water leaks in the bathroom. (She didn't do that, even though she just got out of the shower)
No more steam making my paint peel in the bathroom.(I just forgot to turn the fan on THIS ONE TIME)
No more money disappearing.(I don't know why they only withhold $1k out of my taxes when they hold $10k from you even though we make the same money)
No more bullshit.
It's... Odd.....that all the damage I requested she not do, that she insisted she wasn't doing, has stopped.

Passive aggression is a real *****