Wife / Girlfriend rage

nodemon said
I appreciate you chiming in.. (in which im still trying to figure out the connection), to a post that you deem not proper for a "car forum".. With that said, again, I do appreciate your opinion..
Just to make it clear, I look at my post as a simple question that involves a CAR that directly relates to this site..Also, to make it clear, I didnt ask to be advised on what I should do, I asked what would YOU do. You make it sound like I spilled our complete personal lives and need guidance.
Where other people take it and how they choose to perceive it and answer is their choice.... and just like my appreciation for your "answer", I appreciate theirs... Others have opened up about their own situations.
It's been entertaining and comical at times. She's not my wife, she's my girlfriend, and I love and care for her more than life itself, let alone any car (unless it was a original 71 hemi cuda).
I could really care less what names people call her because It's a forum, not face to face...and all these answers are based on limited information, and the story is one sided, mine.

You do as you want and the fact she vandalised your car and this being a car forum has nothing to do with anything
When you post what you did and ask what would you do, thats asking for advise and correct me if im wrong you received a lot of advise
Im not trying to knock you either and you should know it's more of a issue of some of the replies you received, I just didnt care for them ....So my apoligies for offending you
If you love this woman and you say you do, I hope you both can work it out, get some help
In closing id only offer this.....Im married 48 years, 12 years ago my wife was diagnosed with a serious incurable illness
Miracle she is still alive today but she isn't out of the woods by any means
She's had 4 major surgeries in that time plus infections chemo you name it
She lives now getting scans every 4 months just waiting for the next shoe to drop
Im sure you get the picture. My point is this, although she is still the same person, she isn't the same person if that makes sense.....She knows what she is facing and deals the best she can but in 12 years I swear to you there was a few times I wanted to move out of the house....It was so difficult dealing with some things with her I was at the end of my rope and of course she didnt see it my way and probably still doesnt
I guess what im trying to convey is some times there are reasons and only you know if there is or isn't
I still think posting what you did wasnt the wise thing but thats me.....Good luck and I hope everything works out