She needs to GO! Like many others have said, behavior like that will only get worse.
Here is my wife helping me strip paint and prep the Cuda for primer about 10 years ago. View attachment 1716005986
Wish I could get mine to help me with cars. Her version of help is bossing me around LOL! well some stuff she's good with... upholstery etc. If you give mine a task and leave her alone she does ok.