Steve,
I'm the OP.... I've responded to your earlier post...but, with this one, I want to say without knowing you or ever meeting you, I can tell you're a good guy...and perhaps that's why you've been married 48 years.
I know you see my original post as bad or disrespectful. I don't know any of the members here personally and that's why I threw it out there, otherwise I wouldn't have. I haven't even said a word to my closest friends...actually, haven't brought the subject up to anyone. Again, I could care less what people here are saying or names they may call her. Like I said before, face to face it would be a different situation. It's a forum and the others, like you, are just chiming in. I suspect some of the "tough" answers put out there are just theater. I think some were just having fun with it.
Looking back, maybe I should have posed it as a hypothetical...who knows, maybe it was.