Yep I did but still working on the nursing home idea she doesn't want to go she wants to die before then. Told her I'm not the one to end her life and no one else will either.
Try and let her make the final decision Fred or it will always be your fault. She probably knows herself that this would be the best outcome but just won't admit it yet.
My mother fought tooth and nail just to get her to use a walker. Thought WW3 was about to start but she finally came around to it and loved it..
I guess it's like admitting defeat in a way.
Maybe one of your kids could use a car.