Crime and cost of living in your area.
**** me for wanting a good life for my family right?
Calm yourself down pal, Barbee6043 is a stand up member here. You want a better life for your family, thats something commendable and I hope you find the right place but not ever reply is going to be helpful or what you want to read. Guys are throwing out ideas
I see things as a compromise, try and get the best all around deal but nothing is ever 100% and I think that may be what Barbee was the point he was trying to make
My thing is living were the work is, were you can develop skills and maybe nail down a decent job with good benefits
Than maybe hustle after-hours and weekends.....put the old car in the garage and cover it up, time for that down the road.....
Was always on top of kids, involved in sports/dance/ theatre. Wife kept on their school work. Living in the country is great but today thats no guarantee in todays day and age
best of luck to ya