Stop in for a cup of coffee

You have 18 good years, right?? If so, that can't do anything because you are in "sanctuary status"
If they are taking you to a MEB board, you are entitled to a JAG to represent you and I's advice you to get one. They do these all the time.
At the same time, you should go apply for the VA disability that I've suggested you do in the past.
Hope it all works out.
Thanks looks like it’s time to get off my *** and get this going