I like the way you say I make all these mistakes and then also all the stuff that you make up that I'm doing that I'm not doing. Really this boils down to you needing some attention of some sort...
My first 904 that I put the transgo 3 shift kit in my wife and I drag raced with never had a problem. My friend's still drives his trans am that I rebuilt the 350 turbo in. And of course the 727 in my power wagon is well documented. That was in the frame off restoration... Still a complete rookie as I am I still have had great success. Despite people like yourself that discourage...
I believe you're a prime example of who not to listen to... You are for no advice on how to do things just saying that things are done wrong but those things that you say are done wrong or just things you made up...