Looking for a thread that had a youtube video of different honing tools & which one worked better, like a ball hone versus a 3 finger hone.

You cannot really compare a three finger hone to a ball hone. They do two completely different and separate things. The three finger actually will remove metal. The ball hone is only meant to break the glaze on the cylinders and produce a good cross hatch. You would have to hone one cylinder literally for hours with a ball hone to get the same result as a three finger hone. Even that might not do it.