Your Preferred Engine Coolant Temp “Part 2”

Very true the coolant temperature does not reflect the oil temperature and vice versa until an extreme is reached.
I've read that the coolant and oil temperature relate to some extent during warm up and under moderate use. Under high loads, the oil temperature will go its own way and can need its own cooler. Makes sense but I don't have a good way to verify. Likewise I beleive those who say the oil temperature in the pan is lower than the temps when its going through the engine. That certainly makes sense.