Has anyone ported stock magnum heads and have the before and after flow numbers .???

If that's the case I stand corrected. Your wife is lettin you out too much.
It's a pretty broad brush to paint with. Depends on the ports design. You can have a port that works excellent and then open up that pinch as big as you can and watch it lose all of its low lift velocity which is airflow...as with a magnum head.
If it didn't matter in that head they would have had the 308 pushrod holes and not that smaller Magnum pinch. People need to be more specific. Specifics come with understanding. You can lead somebody into making a big hole and believing that it's all about making big holes. The Magnum head is 150 CC's and it's hard to get it much bigger than 160 to 165cc. That's why this **** gets confusing because you'll have people tell you this.. tell you that ...and then tell you it's about the quality of air at the same time... not necessarily the amount of air. .. then show you a bunch of power on a Dyno with a head that falls off and doesn't have that great a quality of air. One gathers that while important..its not as important as some say it is. Not to veer off ..but Eric weingartner did a video where he turns the test pressure way up and gets the port to go turbulent sooner expressing its simulation to a running engine .... not quite. Now that leads a lot of people to believe that if you don't run an absolutely High test pressure 28-40" the entire time testing that you will not have accurate info... and while that might be partially true...neither is flowbench to begin with.
Go watch the video with the camera inside the intake manifold where the pulses are yanking back and forth ...that's not a steady flow depression is it.

All of this stuff is somewhat speculatory but it's what we use to try and measure what we're doing. So saying this or that doesn't matter and attaching nothing of specifics to it isn't very helpful.