Married- 12 now. Together- 19. We had a stupid long engagement as we were trying to save for the big fancy church wedding and reception but never could get enough saved up for it with just me making 10 bucks an hour while in college and her in college. Kind of regret that length now. Eventually we realized it was stupid to waste the money on a single day to feed everyone else. So we did a private ceremony in the mountains next to a lake. One witness and the minister and photographer 350 bucks plus a couple hundred for the dress