Stop in for a cup of coffee

I think every one in here either served or have/had immediate family that did. Prob one reason we all get along.
My dad was in the military. Never ever spoke about it. There was a duffel bag,his name was on it. Well, his nickname ,8Ball.
And a plane. There was never any talk in the 19 years i knew him.
I do have great respect for the military.