Sure, the facts of the matter are decided
But so often the law looks at the intend of an action, which is not always clear cut, thats why I worded it as I did
(That, and I saw no need to rub salt in the wound)
Fair enough. I think facing what has been obligated to believe can not be considered rubbing salt in a wound. It's sad. All of this. I remember being a jealous young person. I have some regrets too.