Where do I look now

If I come across a car that seems to be what he (Dan) wants I'll post it. Nobody knows anyones life situation, hence I try not to loose patience with people..... I see no need to knock or humiliate The guy unless of course you enjoy doing that, which tells me exactly what you are. You'd think folks would just ignore Dan and move on but thats the internet for you
I'll go out on a limb and say, I think 20 grand is a lot of money for a hobby car for a guy in Dans shoes and so he is afraid to pull that trigger on buying a old car.
He probably is a little unrealistic in what he wants, related to what he wants to spend and I could sympathize with older guys who would really like an old car but simply can't afford it.
Good luck to him