Stop in for a cup of coffee

Much improved, she gains more mobility and control of left arm with each passing day. She still cannot walk unassisted but the leg is also improving a bit. Everyday we gain a bit of ground. Present goal is to be able to scratch her own nose with her hand. This may seem silly but this is where we are at in what will be a very long rehab process. We are very thankful she is alive. Big shout out to all of you first responders and helo drivers. In this scenario life flight literally saved her life. You want BFE Arkansas, that is where she lives. Her husband is a music teacher and the State has a program that entices teachers to the far flung regions of the State in return for helping reduce student loan debt. He accepted the deal and they liked it so much they remained after his contract expired. He is still teaching there.
Good news.
I know a little more than I wish I did about rehab. I've been through a lot of it. They say that "statistically" we'll stick with rehab until we are just comfortable at the point of recovery we've reached then stop exercising. After reading that, I realized I had added to that statistic twice in this lifetime. My most recent example was just over a year ago. I came out of a chemically induced coma as weak as puppy pee from head to toe. With rehab/exercise I reached the point where I no longer needed the walker to get to my mailbox and back.
I can lift a full 12 cup coffee pot and pour myself a cup. I still can't walk for long time and distance like strolling the local flea market (which I loved to do). Last weekend we drove to a huge fabric warehouse and I walked around in there for nearly 2 hours. They next morning I could hardly get from bed to sofa. Hurt all over. I still can't lift a full gallon of milk with one hand. So if I can offer some advice, stay on her *** about rehab and exercise. Remind her that she is getting older every minute, exercise or not. Her goal should be to come out of this delima stronger than before no matter how long it takes.
I don't really fault my wife and others for my bad decision and present condition but I really wish they had stayed on me to stay with it.