custom backspace rims (wheel vintiques says nope)

he gave me every excuse in the book....form I ran them out and they were .025 or .25 i can't remember what he said...to he has 8 hours of work in them and he got 150 in insurance for each....blah blah blah.

He said they were perfect when they left....they had to be bent by UPS. The boxes they came in were in good condition and I don't believe this has anything to do with UPS. basically there was no way that he did them wrong...period....but he did if you ask me, but i can't prove it either way at this point. but the video is racking up views and its posted here to use him at you're own risk....
It's still their responsibility to get them to you safely. Did you ask about having him file a claim with the shipper if he felt that strongly about it?

Either way, I'd think long and hard into doing a charge back. It won't cost you a dime and it may very well end up in your favor. We can't keep enabling businesses to screw customers over.