Im roasting in my car, ideas to cool it down.

right against the firewall. I was thinking about like reflective heat shield stuff. Inside on the firewall.
Any room at all to get sheetmetal between the header and firewall? Any bit of an airgap between the header and a shield, and the shield & firewall would be substantial. The firewall metal is going to act like a heatsink and spread the heat over as much area as possible.
Add a duct from the grille area to "spray" cool air at the area of firewall that the header tube heats up.
I know its a race car, but create a headliner out of 1" fiberglass ductboard. use a small paint roller to roll resin on the cut edges to prevent flying fibers. it doesn't weigh that much.