When my daughter was born i had to set those friends free as I became the responsible single father and have not heard from those friends since.
I raised my daughter on my own for 10 years till i met my first wife. She took in my daughter as her own. My daughters mom entered the picture again and has my daughter brainwashed. Now the wife and I are the evil people because I never did anything for her. I spend alot of days looking back at all the pictures from our trips and adventures. My daughter wants nothing to do with me now. So I sit back and wait.
I have learned to keep to myself and could care less. The wife is the social butterfly so she gets me out into the wild. But I prefer to stay home with her and the two toddlers.
A few friends that the wife has had over are younger and they don't seem to want to work and complain when they work more than 30 hours. I can't handle that attitude as I work my 40 hr work week plus roughly 30 hours a week on the family farm. It's like the world owes them something.