While Wife and I was gone, my son came over to barrow my aluminum floor jack, Tom wouldn't aproch him at all, he has been in his lap a few times, guess he just wasn't comfortable seeing anyone while we was gone, yes, he is now that he is use to us, he was a wild raised kitten and didn't get around anyone til about 5 to 6 weeks old, just guessing, took a week or two to get him tamed, and able to feed out of our hand, little bugger was fast, and grabbed my finger with one set of claws and snagged the food out of my hand Snapp, fast as lightning