What happened to the red X option

Exactly. That's what I did. It's a totally ball-less move to red X someone and then not say why. I'd rather say why without the X and I always do. lol
Ehhhhh, it’s just a disagree button and that’s all it’s worth to me.
If you want to state why, that’s a bonus. Generally IDGAF. I’m not going to argue but will stand my ground on something. Depends on what it is really.

Bottom line, the don’t get butt hurt on a ❌!