Whaddya think about these plugs?

install a hotter coil and perhaps an MSD6, then check the plugs again and compare with another picture!
Perhaps the idle issue would change.
The car's ignition system isn't selectively inadequate on cylinders 1 and 6. This is a mixture-distribution problem, through and through. You can apply whatever band-aids you want, and maybe mask the symptoms to one degree or another, but the problem will still be there.