69 Dart GTS

So I cannot push down my door lock without the latch position catching all the way however if I adjust the door Striker to make the catch securely close then the door appears to be unadjusted I tried everything I lubed it up I used graphite I even went with some good old grease in there I can latch to second position using my finger and then the plunger door lock goes down and up no problem. However when I close the door it must not be going to the second position click click closes the plunger but mine only goes to click when I close the door any ideas I hope you know what I'm talking about I'm at my Wit's End though