Talked to john cope.. told me to put it back together and stop panicking... if i can't find anything wrong nothing is wrong, next time drive it before yanking it out..
Also.. just checked and my converter bolts are 1/32 from the block.. i think the marble noise was them barely kissing it..
All in all though it's ok.. i wanted to replace my flexplate with a good one anyway and ordered better bolts for the converter..
I feel stupid though which i hate.. i'm really not and idiot, for some reason in old age i stress and overthink.. when i was young i barely worried bout **** and everything was fine.. now it seems minor **** is the end of the world.. wtf is this.