He wanted to be paid by Paypal using the "Friends and Family" method so he didn't have to pay the fee from Paypal. Like I said in the video, I am way to trusting and went ahead and paid him that way. Now I can't be reimbursed by Paypal because I used that method. Very smart of him and he was much more clever than me.
I know it's too late, but all he had to do was add 4% to the charge to cover the fee for "goods and services," then both the buyer and seller are happy. Sorry you're going through this.