I don't really understand what you mean with J2 and J3 going to a relay. Draw a diagram.
Not sure why you need a fuse block for the ignition on wire, or a tach. CD deck I would power from the auxilery buss if there is room in the OEM fusebox. Alternately have it trigger a better connection using a relay and fuse. It doesn't need to be on during start and the battery is already under lots of load.
With an electric fuel pump, yes it will be best to be on during run and start. How much current it draws at 12 and 14.5 V will determine if the wiring is sufficient. There's really no reason to use one with a carb. EFI is another story.