HEI conversion Dodge ram truck coil

[1] I would get a coil that has the correct primary resistance....& an E core coil. Two examples are the MSD #8207 or Summit # SUM-850500, $75 & $42 respectively from Summit.
[2] 1" spark. Sounds like that coil has a high turns ratio, which is trading voltage for current. You want a coil with high current, because it is the heat [ current ] in the spark that causes ignition.
[3] Overheating GM HEI module. The modules are internally current regulated to 5.5 amps, so they do not overheat. The only one that I am aware of that is higher is the MSD# 83647, 7.5 amps.
[4] Use 0.060" plug gaps.
Didn't GM go to the large distributor cap to provide more terminal isolation because of the larger plug gaps? With wide gaps I'd be concerned about internal cap arcing when using increased plug gaps. May not be an issue up to a certain gap though.