i do appreciate all the reply's and help to try and resolve the leak, but i still have not found an answer to "Is the gasket failing?" i can use all the sealer i want but if the gasket sticky surface is removing itself from the gasket it doesn't matter that i used RTV, Aviation, or nothing at all on that side. pardon my drawing but this is what i seen the first time i had the leak.
yes thats how it is.